Saturday, 12 March 2016

THE BEAUTY OF BOOKS...

Good morning friends... how are we this morning? I'd posted this on my Facebook wall sometime last year, but, for those that are not on my Facebook list, you may like to take a look at this...

I was quite an early reader and by extension an early writer. My mum who was a teacher would
always buy me novels and also borrow from the school libraries (about 3 every week) and she'd
always read them before giving them to me so as to ensure they are decent and interesting! I guess I'm probably not meant to tell you how long I have read books or how many I have read but what books have done for me.

Many a time when I write short articles, people would always tell me how much they think I
should go into writing as a profession or how they think it'd be great if I open a blog. I haven't written any novel or something of that sort but
some of my articles have been published in popular blogs in UNN- UNN Zuo and Flawless. I now have a blog too! This is as a result of the books I've read and how they have exposed me towards knowing how well
to construct my sentences in order to sound "interesting."

I am from Nsukka-a part of Nigeria that is perceived timid and remote and undeveloped and yet produce the very many finest scholars and
writers that I learn from... You know them... However, whenever I make public speeches or I
talk with people, they always tell me "You don't speak/sound like an Nsukka person." You don't
want to know the replies I give them. The books I read not only improved my writing skills but my speaking skill. I learnt proper English as well as pronunciation of words by always looking up
words I didn't know their meanings in the dictionary.

During my A'levels programme in Lagos, I made use of some words that aren't regular in one of my presentations and later on, a classmate told me that he doesn't know what I'm still attending English classes for when I could speak so well. I was so excited for that
compliment.

My books made me have wide imaginations! Before I entered a plane for the first time, I already had an idea of what I'd expect inside a plane. Before I travelled out of the country for the
first time, I already had images of where I was visiting in my head because I would have read a book or two about that area or cited in that area. Sometimes my imaginations failed! But then,
something was achieved-I had imaginations! When I first went to Lagos however, my imaginations didn't fail. It was busy and rowdy and filled with unending traffic just as I read and had imagined.

I come from a family of 5! I'm the last of these 5 and the only undergraduate. The age spacing in my family is ridiculous! I'm 20 years younger than my eldest sibling. Doesn't that make him more or less a second father? And so, to be able to be
seen as someone who training in school is not a waste of time, I had/have to read books, learn
grammar and speak well. If I didn't do so, trust me, my brother's mouth alone is enough to make me feel bad.

Romance novels for me have also given me ideas of what boys/girls are in relationships and how to handle certain things. I hope they work when I
apply them.

Books are beautiful. They give you ideas and make your mind visit places you haven't been to.
No wonder even most of God's work and teachings are documented in a book... The good book... The Bible!

Have a lovely weekend.

Thursday, 28 January 2016

SOMETHING ABOUT LOVE...

The loves! Who missed me? Who did I miss? Happy New Year y'all. It's been like forever and I've been away due to competing demands.

Here's something to start the year with and I hope you enjoy reading it.

Some people will be surprised at why I chose this...

I'm not an expert here, but I'm human enough to feel it, & then to say it. I'm not so experienced here, but I'm experienced enough to share this "something about love."

Love is such that every  person is free to fire it at any other person he/she pleases.

Here's the drama: "A" fires it at "B." And given that "B" is as free as "A" to fire in any direction, "B" fires it at "C" - not "A". What do we observe? "A" gets nothing from his/her object of love, because "B" is busy loving "C." And guess what? While "A" is busy trying to get at "B", who is trying to get at "C", a certain "D" is firing at "B-busy-A" from his/her end. For me, this is the comedy of love.

Are you complaining that the one you're firing all your love at doesn't even care if you exist or not? You probably now know why? He/she just happens to be firing in another direction; he/she loves another. Being loved back is not automatic, else we would all be madly in love with Jesus who loved us so much & died for us - but we all not are. It's just too rare to find too people fire love at each other simultaneously from the word go.

There's one hope we all work with in this comedy of love, the fact that we're all free, too, to reconsider the direction of our firing & then re-fire. If you hold on long enough, then the one you're firing at may notice you, consider you, reconsider his/her current direction, & now decide to fire at you. You win!

However, & finally, I like to be very realistic. Since some will not just work, don't wait for too long if it ain't working. Two things to do: look around to find the one firing at you & fire back, or just start the game all over.

Have you wondered why we say "love makes the world go round"? This is one of the reasons.

Enjoy your weekend!